Fickle is fun, especially in the bedroom. From condoms to sex positions, while plain vanilla is good at times, it’s time to explore something more daring. So, why just masturbate the same old way? Unlike men, women do have the option of touching themselves in various ways, each more exciting than the other. So here’s a non-exhaustive list of masturbation positions to give yourself the best hand-job ever.
Undress, maybe not
Well, remember those hot and steamy quickie sessions when you really didn’t have time to get those straps off? Well, nothing’s hotter than that, really. So why not try some solo action that way. Just make sure that the fabric is soft enough to not hurt your Ms Vee-Vee.
Not literally. To switch from the usual circular or frantic gestures on your clitoris, you can try handling it like a penis. Hold the lips from the roots and go back and forth to give it a hand job. However, this may not work for you.
Tap tap tap you go
Well, whether the panties are on or not, you can try tapping lightly on different areas of your honeypot. The clitoris is more or less sensitive. One side can do more than another, and that’s why you should not hesitate to try. You have nothing to lose anyway.
A shiver down your…
Did you know that sensations of hot and cold too can have unexpectedly sensuous effects? Use an ice cube and rub it on the sensitive genitals, or at the entrance of the vagina. The extreme cold confronted with the warmth of your stimulated sexual organs can give you sensations that will rock your world, literally.
Slick and Slippery
Some lubricants have the special feature of alternating between hot and cold, like the Durex Play O Gel. Lubricants are a good idea anyway. A vagina too dry will not be very pleasant to touch. Saliva can help, but for a short time, while the gel will hold you throughout the experience. So explore and find a new lubricant to add novelty to your rendezvous with self.
Not so handsy
Well, who said you can only use your hands or tools to get off the high horse of horniness? Remember Natalie Portman in Black Swan? You too can help yourself with a duvet or a pillow on which you straddle. The rubbing of the bump on your clitoris, along with the stimulation of the vulva will undoubtedly give you the orgasm of a lifetime. You can even get your imagination running wild here, it will escalate the process. *winks*
Mirror, mirror on the wall
Ditch that girl-next-door look and dress up in the sexiest lingerie. It is a date you have with yourself. Face the mirror, and make love to yourself. Use dim lights to create a better effect.
Seducing the… sofa?
Use the armrest of your couch to stimulate your clit. Humping or saddling is an interesting position to masturbate. If you have a softer armrest, you are good to go as is. However, if the armrest is hard, we suggest you put a towel or soft cloth to cover it before you begin your session.
You’re welcome, already. Or should we say, well-cummed?