Mutual Masturbation – The Secret to a Spiced up Sex Life!

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Meet Kiran. She is a successful production assistant who’s been living with her boyfriend, Jay, an Art Director, for 3 years now. Their busy life leaves little room for them to spend enough quality time together. Before they knew it, life became a mundane routine with a lot of “I’ll be home late tonight” or “Not tonight honey, I am exhausted.”
It is not uncommon for couples like Kiran and Jay to blame their lack of intimacy in the bedroom on busier, more stressful, fast paced lives. After years of living together, as the comfort quotient goes up, the motivation to spice things up often dwindles. Having said that, your bedroom antics are an important determinant of how happy you are in your relationship.

Taking out Time

While taking time off from all work appointments and social dos may seem like a task at first, all you need to do is talk to your partner and make time to reignite the fire that once lit up your bedroom.
Spicing up Your Sex Life
If you are not into role play, dirty talk or any of those conventional recommendations that one reads about in waiting-room magazines, consider upping the game a little by asking your boyfriend to masturbate in front of you.

For both men and women, self-masturbation is typically a private time to please themselves. It is a known fact that men masturbate for a simple, convenient and fast sexual release. And it is finally time to admit it out in the open that as women, we love masturbating too!

For women, self-pleasure is a great way to indulge in themselves on their own terms.

And mutual masturbation is a great way to be able to create a mood, just the way you like, while both partners can take their own time.

What is Mutual Masturbation?

Simply put, mutual masturbation is self-pleasing in front of your partner while your partner masturbates in front of you. You could choose to do it at the same time, or take turns. Either way, you will be able to create a sensual setting that allows you to maximize the pleasure of each other’s bodies while letting your imagination run wild.

Why should you try it?

Mutual masturbation is, without doubt, a fun and sexy experience. That said, a surprisingly large number of couples are shy about trying.

Many may even be apprehensive about discussing masturbation as a topic. However, the first time you try it, you will find that watching your partner masturbate, and even talk about what he is thinking about during the act, allows you to pick up some great pointers on how he likes things in bed.

Watching your partner masturbate in front of you will go a long way in establishing a strong physical and emotional bond, overcome apprehensions and be more confident in bed.

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